I Hate Men
The feminist book they tried to ban in France
‘A delightful book’ Roxane Gay
Women, especially feminists and lesbians, have long been accused of hating men. Our instinct is to deny it at all costs. (After all, women have been burnt at the stake for admitting to less.)
But what if mistrusting men, disliking men – and yes, maybe even hating men – is, in fact, a useful response to sexism? What if such a response offers a way out of oppression, a means of resistance? What if it even offers a path to joy, solidarity and sisterhood?
In this sparkling essay, as mischievous and provocative as it is urgent and serious, Pauline Harmange interrogates modern attitudes to feminism and makes a rallying cry for women to find a greater love for each other – and themselves.
”'A good book, written from a burning heart but with a cool head” - The Times
”'Rousing … a call to liberation. Her writing is full of hope, unwavering in its trust of other women and their abilities” - Independent
'Bracing, bold … a cri de coeur against the burden put on women to be nice and to spare men’s feelings' The i -
”'An exhilarating essay to be read in one sitting” - Libération
”'Written in wise prose, devoid of excess or rage, I Hate Men explores the terrain of contemporary feminism, its arguments in keeping with those of writers like Rebecca Solnit, as well as the movement's key ideas: patriarchy, the mental load, #MeToo and solidarity” - L’Obs