A Truce That Is Not Peace
THE NUMBER ONE INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER
‘The best memoir you will read all year’ NICK HORNBY
‘A triumph – a meditation on writing, suicide, guilt and silence’GUARDIAN
‘A grief memoir in the vein of Joan Didion’s Blue Nights‘ NEW YORK TIMES
‘Darkly moving and heart-wrenchingly funny’ MARIE CLAIRE
‘This is memoir perfection … I adored it’ CARIAD LLOYD
The internationally bestselling author of Women Talking and All My Puny Sorrows, Miriam Toews, returns with a singular memoir celebrating disobedient memory, wit, writing and life.
‘Why do you write?’ the organiser of a literary event in Mexico City asks Miriam Toews. Each attempted answer from Toews – all of them unsatisfactory to the organiser – surfaces new layers of grief, guilt and futility connected to her sister’s suicide. She has been keeping up, she realises, a decades-old internal correspondence, filling a silence she barely understands. And we, her readers, come to see that the question is as impossible to answer as deciding whether to live life as a comedy or a tragedy.
A Truce That Is Not Peace is the first time Toews has written about her own life in nonfiction. Wildly inventive yet masterfully controlled; wrenching and joyful – this is Miriam Toews at her dazzling best, remaking her world and inventing an astonishing new literary form to contain it.
‘[Toews] does not shy away from her own vulnerability, and writes with both candour and humour’Observer
‘Toews knows exactly how to extract hilarity from horrifying events’ The Times
‘Nothing short of a masterpiece’ San Francisco Chronicle
‘There are few writers who so fully inhabit the vulnerable space between violence and grace, criticism and compassion, as Toews does‘ AnOther Magazine
‘Brilliant … it broke my heart in the best of ways’ Sharlene Teo, author of Ponti
‘Tragi-comic, and incredibly moving … essential reading for turbulent times’ Laura van den Berg, author of The Third Hotel
‘Toews has done something very rare: shown us a true inner world’ Samuel Graydon, author of Einstein in Time and Space
‘An affirmation of Life in all its richness and variety … remarkable’ Celia Paul, author of Self-Portrait
I would have read another thousand chapters’ Catherine Newman, author of Sandwich
‘Piercing and distilled, a masterpiece in vulnerability and performance’ Hannah Pittard, author of We Are Too Many
A Truce That Is Not Peace was a #1 bestseller in Canada in w/c 06/09/2025
‘This book is a triumph – a meditation on writing, suicide, guilt and silence … an illustration of why she’s one of Canada’s most admired writers’ Guardian, 'Book of the Day' -
‘Toews knows exactly how to extract hilarity from horrifying events … a short, at times very funny account of some of the darkest moments in her life' The Times -
'As fluent in the comic register as it is in the tragic … this is a grief memoir in the vein of Joan Didion’s Blue Nights' New York Times -
‘[Toews] does not shy away from her own vulnerability, and writes with both candour and humour’ Observer -
'Wisecracks punctuate the meditative memoir … It’s in the elliptical details, often of domestic life, that Toews communicates the messiness of survival’ Spectator -
'Erudite, deeply, darkly moving and heart-wrenchingly funny’ Marie Claire -
'A layered confrontation with the deaths, grief, and guilt that have animated her work for nearly 30 years, providing haunting insights on how to live after tragic loss' The Atlantic -
‘A profoundly moving meditation on the frailty of memory and the permanence of loss … nothing short of a masterpiece’ San Francisco Chronicle -
‘There are few writers who so fully inhabit the vulnerable space between violence and grace, criticism and compassion, as Toews does' AnOther Magazine -
‘This is memoir perfection. Toews manages to be funny about life’s hardest moments … I adored it’ Cariad Lloyd, author of You Are Not Alone -
‘Original, autobiographical, deeply painful, funny … A Truce That Is Not Peace is the best memoir you will read all year’ Nick Hornby, author of Just Like You -
‘Beautiful, hilarious, devastating’ Paula Hawkins, author of The Girl On The Train -
‘A brilliant, absorbing, bittersweet memoir … it broke my heart in the best of ways’ Sharlene Teo, author of Ponti -
‘An affirmation of Life in all its richness and variety. This remarkable book will live forever’ Celia Paul, author of Self-Portrait -
